Friday, May 13, 2011

From Taipei...

We made it to Taipei today after many long hours on an airplane. Thirteen hours on one plane is a long, long time. We spent a total of 20 hours on planes just to get here, but we made it. Now we have time to rest and get ready to meet Eli.

We got some additional info about him the day before we left home. We know he weighs 19 lbs. He is scooting along on his belly, but is unable to walk. He has physical therapy three times each week. We also learned that the hole in his heart is closing up, but it isn't fully closed and he still takes medicine for that. We are so excited to meet him.

Our flights went well. From New Orleans, we were late leaving because of weather. It was a very bumpy ride. The flights from Dallas to San Francisco and on to Taipei were good just long. Thankfully, we didn't lose any luggage. We were picked up at the airport in a Mercedes Benz and driven to our hotel. It is a nice place. The room seems a bit small, but it is laid out well. Anyway, we aren't here for a vacation.

After a nap, we are going to explore the neighborhood and find something to eat. We will try to post pictures on Facebook. The iPad won't let me upload pics to this page. Please keep praying for us.

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

How Great an Adoption

We are still busy making plans to travel. We will be leaving in two weeks. As the day of meeting Eli draws closer, I've been thinking more and more about him. He has no idea how his life is about to change. The orphanage has been showing him pictures of our family and telling him basic information about us, but really he has no idea that he is about to be lovingly received into our family as a son and a brother. His life will be totally different because of this adoption.

The Lord has been reminding me of what a great adoption has taken place in my life. I was raised by my birthparents and had a great childhood, never questioning my place within my physical family. But spiritually...I was an orphan. I was fatherless. I was more than a stranger and a foreigner. I was an enemy of Christ.

Yet, while I was still a sinner Christ died for me. When I was young, I didn't know it, but plans were made for my adoption. I was lovingly accepted into the family of God as a son. And that...that has made all the difference in my life.

Friday, April 15, 2011

Travel Packet Arrives

Earlier today we received the travel pack from Heartsent. It was filled with all kinds of information about our trip as well as so many more instructions for things that must be done before we travel. Plane tickets have been purchased and hotel reservations have been made. We are gathering all the paperwork that we need as well as purchasing items that will be helpful on our trip. This is a very exciting time for us and a very busy time as well.

Work began on the church this morning. I am excited about the renovation to the church building, but it is adding stress to an already hectic schedule. We will get through the Easter holidays and then travel will be right around the corner. Heather and I will miss the awards day at school for our children and we will be gone for the last few days of school, but Rachel and Micah are great. They completely understand and they are just as excited as we are about bringing Eli home.

Please continue to pray for Eli and his caretakers. Also pray for a safe, comfortable trip for us. Please be praying for the day we get to meet Eli's birth family. We want to be able to share the love of Christ with them and present them with a Bible in the Mandarin language. Pray that God opens doors.

If anyone has some tips about international travel that you think would be helpful for us, let us know either on Facebook or as a comment here.

Monday, April 11, 2011

Travel Itinerary

Over the weekend, we received a brief itinerary of our trip. We should be receiving a travel packet soon and over the next few days we have to book flights and hotels and all other travel arrangements. So the next few days and even the next month will be very busy as we plan to travel and continue to prepare our home for Eli.

Here is the trip itinerary. Please pray each day for that day's activity.
May 14 - Arrive in country
May 15 - Rest and get over jet lag
May 16 - 10am - Meet Eli at Jonah House, Visit with caretakers
May 17 - Visit with Eli
May 18 - Visit with Eli, possible overnight stay
May 19 - Meet Eli's birthparents and family
May 20 - AIT appointment (to get paperwork completed)
May 21-22 - Weekend
May 23 - Receive paperwork from AIT giving Eli permission to travel
May 24 - Head home

Friday, April 8, 2011

Article about Government Shutdown and Adoption. (from America World Adoption agency)

What a Possible Government Shutdown Means for Adoptions

As rumors of a possible shutdown of the U.S. Government increase, we wanted to take a few moments to pass along some information about how this may affect America World families. Currently, members of Congress are working with the Obama Administration to pass a budget for the 2011 fiscal year. If an agreement is not reached by midnight on Friday, April 8, parts of the federal government will close until a new budget is passed.

We are working to stay on top of the situation and to get accurate information about what adoption services will be affected if a shutdown occurs. It is important to remember that, at this point, a shutdown is only a possibility and is not guaranteed.

While the information coming out of Washington is unclear, what is known is that a shutdown would result in the furlough of any “non-essential” government personnel. It is unclear exactly which services are considered “essential,” but it appears that “essential” functions are those that the government considers necessary for the protection of human life and property (i.e. national security, air traffic control, medical care, etc.).

Unfortunately, it appears that the Department of State and USCIS will be affected if a shutdown occurs. Information that we received from a recent meeting held at the Department of State indicated that furloughs will affect many staff who work with adoptions at DOS, USCIS, and embassy and consulate offices around the world. Embassies will be officially “closed” during the shutdown, meaning that embassy staff will not be able to serve the public during this time. If this happens, delays in processing paperwork and completing adoptions are likely.

If a shutdown occurs, it is unclear how long it will be until all government services are back up and running. Previous shutdowns have lasted from as little as a few hours to as long as 21 days. It is also important to remember that there are ways for the government to avoid a shutdown completely. First, Congress could pass a budget prior to the Friday deadline, which would fund all government services throughout the remainder of the fiscal year. Obviously, this is the ideal scenario. Congress also has the option of passing a short-term “continuing resolution” that would continue spending at current levels in order to buy more time to reach an agreement on a new budget.

In the event of a shutdown, here’s how we think America World families will be affected: Families currently building their dossiers could see delays in paperwork processing of USCIS approvals and document authentications. Families who are preparing to travel could likely see delays in receiving Embassy/Consulate clearance and appointment dates. Families who are already in-country would likely not be able to receive a US visa for their adopted child and experience delays in returning home until the government re-opens.

America World is in communication with U.S. government officials and will provide you with any new information we receive. Please be in prayer that our elected officials will be able to come to an agreement so that the government can continue processing adoptions.

WE HAVE TRAVEL DATES!!!!

We are going to pick up Eli May 16th. Jill called at 1:36pm to tell us that our case is through the court system and we are traveling next month to get our son! I can't think straight right now. So much to do.... Will write more later. Thanks for praying!!!!

Moving Along

My heart skipped a beat yesterday afternoon. I was driving home with the kids when my phone rang. The call was from Heartsent, our adoption agency. I almost ran off the road trying to answer it, but remained calm when I said hello. Jill, our adoption worker, said hello and began asking how our family was doing. I'm thinking, "we don't have time for all this small talk...are you calling to tell me we can travel?" Finally, Jill got around to telling me why she was calling. Cathwel, the orphanage in Taipei, emailed her asking for more photos of Heather and I and of our entire family. She said they asked for the photos because they wanted to show them to Eli and prepare him for the adoption. I asked if that meant we were almost ready to travel or if they gave us any indication of the time frame for travel. Jill said there was no way of knowing, but it did mean that our case was moving along and the orphanage is making plans to place Eli into our care. At this point, any information that we receive is great news. We have not heard a word since November and the waiting has become very difficult. Just knowing that they orphanage workers care enough to prepare Eli for his new family gave us great comfort about his current care. Please continue to pray for Eli, his caregivers, and the adoption process.

Friday, April 1, 2011

Amazing News

Yesterday, I posted a story about a family attempting to adopt Kirill, a toddler with down syndrome. This morning, another family went to court in an attempt to adopt a toddler girl with down syndrome. This family had to appear before the same judge who ruled Kirill medically unfit to have a family. It goes without saying that they were extremely nervous and anxious about their court hearing. No child with down syndrome has ever been adopted from this country. The officials of this country believe that children with down syndrome should be institutionalized for their entire lives. It blows my mind to think how ignorant some people must be. Anyway, the prayers of so many people were answered by the Lord as Eva Noel, the little girl, was accepted to be adopted by the Hook family. Clark and Angie Hook wrote on their blog,

"Today we became a family of six!!! At noon Russian time, the judge accepted our application to adopt Evan!!!! Our excitement cannot be explained or described!!! We hope that today's victory of one less orphan will open the floodgates to this region so that other children with special needs will be able to go home to their forever mommies and daddies."

Let's join them in this prayer.

Thursday, March 31, 2011

Kirill's Story


Join us in praying for the mother and child in this photo and the many others who are caring for and desiring to care for orphans with Down Syndrome.

Kirill’s Story…. Two years ago Greg and I began praying for God to do whatever he wanted with our lives. We handed him a “blank check” so to speak, and told him to cash it. He opened our eyes to children with disabilities wasting away across the ocean in Eastern Europe. We joined God and started our adoption journey.

As we prayed over the faces of thousands of orphaned children with Down Syndrome, we finally allowed our then three-year-old son to choose from three little boys. We feel that children have the purest hearts and hear God’s voice more clearly than adults because they are not tainted by the world. He chose a little boy named Sergey. Eight months later, as we neared the finish line of our adoption, one of Sergey’s family members stepped forward to adopt him. We were heartbroken for our loss, but God showed us that we were following him, and his ways are perfect. We knew we still wanted to adopt, so the way we saw it, two children would find homes because of our journey…Sergey went to his family and now we would choose another child to come into our family. We took great comfort in knowing that God could see this when we first committed to Sergey! We were honored to be a part of his plan.

Shortly after losing Sergey, we received a new referral with a grainy photo of a four-year-old blond-haired boy wearing pink glasses named Kirill. We were instantly in love with him. We had to re-file a lot of our paperwork because of the change in referrals, but we were fast and we thought we were looking at three more months at the most until we would have Kirill home.

That was one year ago…

Since then so many things have happened. A tragic story of an adoptive mother sending her child back to his country alone on a plane with a note pinned to his shirt rocked our world…he was from our Kirill’s country. Adoptions in that country came to a screeching halt. Kirill’s region stopped processing adoptions for eight long months. The judge refused to accept any Amercian adoption cases until an official treaty was signed between the United States and Kirill’s country.

Even though we wouldn’t be able to finalize the adoption in court until the treaty was signed, we were allowed to go visit Kirill and sign our official petition to adopt him in August 2010. We fell more deeply in love with him. This was our son.

During that time, we found out that Kirill is the first child from his region EVER to be adopted with Down Syndrome. A birth mother keeping her child with Down Syndrome is unheard of in this area of the world. Adoptions of children with Down Syndrome just don’t happen there, these children are literally hidden away from society in orphanages and mental institutions. As our process continued, it became apparent that Kirill would be a pioneer. If our adoption was approved, it would pave the way for other children with special needs to be adopted from this region.

Then, a miracle happened around Christmas and the judge in this region suddenly changed her mind and began processing American adoptions again. We were elated. Could this be the light at the end of a very long tunnel? I was somewhat nervous about Kirill being the first child adopted with Down Syndrome from his region, but our agency was very confident that if we got a court date, our adoption would be approved. In seventeen years, they had never had a case rejected IF the family was issued a court date. We were told not to worry, so I didn’t. After meeting the judge’s requests for several supporting court documents, we were finally granted a court date-March 17, 2011. St. Patrick’s Day…I was thrilled. This would be our new favorite holiday! Our son was coming home!

Our other son, Clayton, who had just turned three when we started this adoption process, has prayed fervently for his brother. He is now almost five. When we told him Kirill was coming home, oh my…we had an excited big brother on our hands! At one point he even went to his room, dumped out his toy cars and divided them into two stacks…one for him and one for Kirill.

Last week, as we sat in the courtroom and suffered through five agonizing hours of difficult questioning, we were not prepared for anything but an approval of our case. Two doctors, two social workers, and the Minister of Children’s Services all made very strong statements on our behalf. They fought for us. Hard.

But when the ruling was read, the judge said, “Your application to adopt is rejected.” The basis given was that Kirill was “not socially adaptable” due to his “medical condition” and he was better off in an institution than in a home with a family. We were told we could adopt another child, and the judge would approve it, but not this child. Why? The only reason? Because he has Down Syndrome.

It was like a terrible dream. We were so unprepared for this outcome. As we left the courthouse in a mental fog, the doctors and social workers that had testified came to us and said, “If you appeal, we will fight for you. Appeal. Fight this decision.” Of course we were going to appeal…I could no more walk away from Clayton at this point. Kirill is just as much my son.

So here we are, asking God to move the mountain that is standing between Kirill and us as we appeal to the Supreme Court in his country. There are also three other families who are in various stages of adopting children with Down Syndrome from this region; one of the families has a court hearing set for next week

Oh Lord, hear our cries. Free these children and set them in families. We know you are sovereign. We know you are just. We know you see the bigger picture and our sole purpose is to carry your name to the ends of the earth. Regardless of the outcome, our God is sovereign and we will lift our hands and praise him! We know the battle is won and we will hold our son Kirill in Heaven. But we are begging God to give him and the other children of his region redemption here on earth as well; to let them be held and loved by families who so desperately want to care for them. Let us pray for the judge and the people of this country who cannot see that these children are your ambassadors. Let them be changed. Let them see you. Let all of us see you and live to glorify your name alone. Amen.

More about Greg and Tesney and their journey @ http://reecesrainbow.org/sponsordavis

Monday, March 21, 2011

Quick Update

We are continuing to wait for news about travel to Taiwan. We have not heard anything for quite sometime, but that was to be expected. The call could come any day, so we just continue to pray and ask that you join us.

Ten days ago a massive earthquake hit Japan. Taiwan is south of Japan and according to some news reports, aftershocks as big as 5.2 have been centered just off the coast of Taiwan. Last week, I called our adoption worker to make sure that everything was safe in Taipei and she assured us everybody was fine.


Thursday, March 3, 2011

Eli's Home Away From Home

This morning I was thinking about Eli. I was wondering how his day went and how he is growing and developing. We long to see him. Our desire to go to Taiwan and pick him up and bring him home today, but we are aware that everything is done in God's time. There is not much to do while we wait. It is very hard to be patient and wait for a phone call. But that is all that we can do. We really don't have any idea when we will be able to go get Eli. We have spoken with our adoption worker and she tells us it could be any day and it could take 3-4 more months. There is no way to know. So we just wait.

I got on Google Maps and found these street view pictures of Jonah House. Jonah House is the orphanage that Eli was taken to at one month of age. It has been his home for the past 17 months. I am ready to walk through those front doors and get my son and bring him to his new, permanent home. Please continue to pray for a quick court process. Pray that Heather and I will be able to travel soon.


Monday, February 21, 2011

This past Friday we held another fundraiser for our adoption. A good friend, Jimmy Mizell, came up from Livingston and cooked jambalaya and white beans. We sold lunch plates all over town and ended up serving over 400 plates. After we paid our expenses, we made just over $2000. I would like to thank everyone who helped prepare food and deliver plates. Also, a huge thanks to all those that bought plates and to those who gave donations. Following the jambalaya fundraiser, Heather and I did some calculations. It appears that we have raised all the money that we need for travel.

I cannot begin to describe to you how the Lord has blessed our family over the past several months. Heather and I simply obeyed the Lord when He called us to adopt. When we began the process we did not have any money set aside for adoption and had very little in our savings that could be used for adoption. We knew that the cost of adoption was great and by our best estimates the final price tag to complete the adoption of Eli would be around $30,000. In the past four months, God has provided somewhere close to $25,000. AMAZING!!!

As we thought back over the past few months, we couldn't even begin to tell you where all that money came from. It seemed as if God just multiplied all we had been given. God has taught our family so much over the past few months. We have learned to trust Him even when there doesn't seem to be a way. As long as you are obedient to His call, He will provide.

From the very beginning of our adoption journey, the Lord has impressed on me that this adoption is not really about a little boy in Taiwan with Down's Syndrome and it is not really about a family living in rural Louisiana....this adoption is about God. To God be the glory!

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

The Final Fundraiser

Barring any unforeseen events, Friday, Feb. 18 will be our last fundraiser. We are selling lunch plates. The menu includes cajun-style jambalaya, white beans, bread and dessert. We are blessed to have a great friend from Livingston, Jimmy Mizell, coming to prepare the jambalaya. He makes the best! Tickets are on sale now. We will deliver to businesses or you can pick up a lunch at Triangle Pharmacy.

A Huge Thanks!

This past Sunday, Harrisonburg First Baptist Church held a lunch fundraiser for our adoption. We would like to express our gratitude for all those who worked so hard to prepare food and get everything ready to make this fundraiser a success. We appreciate everyone who gave. We cannot say thank you enough.

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Almost There...We Think

February marks the third month since our paperwork entered the court system. Back in November, we were told that the court process takes 3-6 months to complete. So we are entering the final stages. We are continuing to wait on a phone call that will give us travel plans and our gotcha date. We have not heard any news or received any more information concerning Eli or our case, so we just wait. Please pray that the process will go smoothly and we will hear something soon.

Our family has been preparing for Eli. We have set up his bed and made room for his toys and clothes. Heather has been buying clothes every time she goes to Walmart. We are not sure if he will have anything with him once we pick him up, so we are stocking up now.

We are also continuing to raise money. Sunday, February 6th, Harrisonburg First Baptist Church is selling lunch plates to raise money for our travel costs. For those who read this blog in Harrisonburg, plan on going by FBC and eating. Thanks in advance for giving to our adoption. I would also like to thank those who planned this fundraiser and who are working hard to make it happen. We appreciate you so very much.

On Friday, February 18th, we will be selling Jambalaya lunches in Jena. The lunches can be picked up at Triangle Pharmacy or delivered. We need orders by February 16th. If you would like to have a lunch that day, contact us by email or by commenting on this blog. We will make sure you get a plate.

Between the two fundraisers, we would like to raise $4000-5000. This will cover our travel expenses and give us a little extra to buy anything we need for Eli while in Taiwan. Again, we don't know if he will have anything other than the clothes on his back when we get him.

Finally, please begin praying for Eli's birth mother. When we travel to Taiwan, we will have the opportunity to meet her. She has requested this meeting. I'm sure in her mind, she wants to meet the family that will be raising her son. She will want to keep the lines of communication open. We know that God is giving us this opportunity to meet with her and share with her the truth about Jesus Christ. Our desire is to share the good news with her. Please pray that God would begin to soften her heart. Pray that God would give us wisdom and boldness.

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

News Story on Taiwan/China relations

JIUPENG, Taiwan – If Taiwan's unusually public test-firing of 19 missiles Tuesday was intended as a statement following China's successful trial of a new stealth aircraft, the message came out a bit garbled.

Taiwan's president was on hand as almost a third of the missiles missed their targets, raising questions rather than reassuring the public about the self-ruled island's readiness to defend itself against an attack from the mainland.

President Ma Ying-jeou's attendance at the drills at a base in Taiwan's south was ostensibly to underscore his commitment to an effective Taiwanese deterrent, following criticism that the island's defense has been undermined by his policy of reconciling with the mainland.

However, one analyst suggested the public display was aimed at persuading Washington to sell more advanced military jets to Taiwan, whose U.S.-equipped air force long maintained an advantage over China's, but has recently been eclipsed.

Mainland China and Taiwan split amid civil war in 1949, but Beijing still claims the island as its territory and has reserved the right to invade the democratic island of 23 million people if it moves to make its de facto independence permanent — something Ma opposes.

Six of the 19 surface-to-air and air-to-air missiles failed in drills that came after China's successful test flight last week of a next-generation J-20 stealth aircraft, a system expected to further widen its growing edge over Taiwan's own equipment-starved air force.

"I'm not satisfied with the results," Ma told reporters after the missile drills. "I hope the military will find out the reasons and improve its training."

The missile tests were the first held in full view of the press for almost a decade. They were meant, Ma said, "to bring more transparency into military affairs and allow the public to view the military's readiness."

But under a cloud-speckled winter sky, six of the missiles failed to hit their targets, including one RIM-7M Sparrow, which cascaded harmlessly into the South China Sea less than 30 seconds after launch. Other missiles tested included Sky Bow IIs — which have a range of 125 miles (200 kilometers) — MIM-23 Hawks and FIM-92 Stingers.

Following China's well-publicized test of the J-20 last week, the normally pro-government United Daily News questioned Ma's policy of shifting the military's main mission away from national defense and toward disaster relief, commenting that "the more important mission for the military is to defend against threats."

The shift in military priorities, unveiled after a devastating typhoon in August 2009, reflects Ma's belief that his continuing efforts to lower tensions with China — the main theme of his 2 1/2-year-old administration — make war across the 100-mile- (160-kilometer-) wide Taiwan Strait less likely than ever before.

Defense expert Wang Kao-cheng of Taipei's Tamkang University said one purpose of Tuesday's missile test may have been to persuade the U.S. to sell Taiwan the 66 relatively advanced F-16 jet fighters that top its military wish list.

Washington is considering the request, but bitter Chinese opposition to the deal has delayed its implementation for more than two years.

"The Taiwan government may be using this exercise to send a message to the U.S. that its air defense is facing mounting pressure as China continues to develop the new generation of fighter jets," Wang said.

Taiwanese military commentators say the main function of the missiles tested Tuesday is to deter Chinese aircraft from entering the island's self-proclaimed defense zone on its side of an imaginary line that runs through the strait that separates Taiwan from the mainland.

The missiles bolster the island's aging air force, which American analysts say is becoming increasingly ill-prepared to meet the challenges of China's continuing military buildup.

Monday, January 17, 2011

2 month mark

It has been just over a month since my last post. The reality of how slow the adoption process moves is starting to set in. Since sending in our dossier paperwork, we have not heard any news on Eli or where we stand in the court system. I have spoken to other families that are adopting from Taiwan and they heard that the court system shuts down around Christmas. That wasn't very encouraging to hear. The good news is that we are now about to enter the time frame that was given to us by our adoption agency. We were told that once our paperwork entered the courts we could expect a 3-6 month wait until receiving a travel date. Our paperwork entered the court system in mid-November. That means that we are at the 2 month mark. Things are beginning to get exciting. We are preparing our home for Eli's arrival. I have two great kids. They are so excited about Eli coming home and are working great at getting things ready. I am extremely proud of Micah. He will be sharing his bedroom for the first time. He has been so gracious in getting rid of toys and making space for Eli's bed and clothes and toys. The Lord has blessed us in so many ways and we are reminded each day that our family is one of the Lord's greatest blessings.

Over the past few weeks, some money for the adoption has begun to trickle in. We received a donation from a very special lady and friend of our family. Harrisonburg First Baptist Church has been selling our shirts for the past few weeks and have collected around $400 dollars. We also were told that H'burg FBC was planning a lunch fundraiser after church on Feb. 6. Thanks in advance to all those who are planning and working to make this fundraiser a success and thanks to H'burg FBC for supporting our adoption financially, but more importantly prayerfully.

Keep praying and we will update you soon.