Thursday, March 3, 2011

Eli's Home Away From Home

This morning I was thinking about Eli. I was wondering how his day went and how he is growing and developing. We long to see him. Our desire to go to Taiwan and pick him up and bring him home today, but we are aware that everything is done in God's time. There is not much to do while we wait. It is very hard to be patient and wait for a phone call. But that is all that we can do. We really don't have any idea when we will be able to go get Eli. We have spoken with our adoption worker and she tells us it could be any day and it could take 3-4 more months. There is no way to know. So we just wait.

I got on Google Maps and found these street view pictures of Jonah House. Jonah House is the orphanage that Eli was taken to at one month of age. It has been his home for the past 17 months. I am ready to walk through those front doors and get my son and bring him to his new, permanent home. Please continue to pray for a quick court process. Pray that Heather and I will be able to travel soon.


Monday, February 21, 2011

This past Friday we held another fundraiser for our adoption. A good friend, Jimmy Mizell, came up from Livingston and cooked jambalaya and white beans. We sold lunch plates all over town and ended up serving over 400 plates. After we paid our expenses, we made just over $2000. I would like to thank everyone who helped prepare food and deliver plates. Also, a huge thanks to all those that bought plates and to those who gave donations. Following the jambalaya fundraiser, Heather and I did some calculations. It appears that we have raised all the money that we need for travel.

I cannot begin to describe to you how the Lord has blessed our family over the past several months. Heather and I simply obeyed the Lord when He called us to adopt. When we began the process we did not have any money set aside for adoption and had very little in our savings that could be used for adoption. We knew that the cost of adoption was great and by our best estimates the final price tag to complete the adoption of Eli would be around $30,000. In the past four months, God has provided somewhere close to $25,000. AMAZING!!!

As we thought back over the past few months, we couldn't even begin to tell you where all that money came from. It seemed as if God just multiplied all we had been given. God has taught our family so much over the past few months. We have learned to trust Him even when there doesn't seem to be a way. As long as you are obedient to His call, He will provide.

From the very beginning of our adoption journey, the Lord has impressed on me that this adoption is not really about a little boy in Taiwan with Down's Syndrome and it is not really about a family living in rural Louisiana....this adoption is about God. To God be the glory!

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

The Final Fundraiser

Barring any unforeseen events, Friday, Feb. 18 will be our last fundraiser. We are selling lunch plates. The menu includes cajun-style jambalaya, white beans, bread and dessert. We are blessed to have a great friend from Livingston, Jimmy Mizell, coming to prepare the jambalaya. He makes the best! Tickets are on sale now. We will deliver to businesses or you can pick up a lunch at Triangle Pharmacy.

A Huge Thanks!

This past Sunday, Harrisonburg First Baptist Church held a lunch fundraiser for our adoption. We would like to express our gratitude for all those who worked so hard to prepare food and get everything ready to make this fundraiser a success. We appreciate everyone who gave. We cannot say thank you enough.

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Almost There...We Think

February marks the third month since our paperwork entered the court system. Back in November, we were told that the court process takes 3-6 months to complete. So we are entering the final stages. We are continuing to wait on a phone call that will give us travel plans and our gotcha date. We have not heard any news or received any more information concerning Eli or our case, so we just wait. Please pray that the process will go smoothly and we will hear something soon.

Our family has been preparing for Eli. We have set up his bed and made room for his toys and clothes. Heather has been buying clothes every time she goes to Walmart. We are not sure if he will have anything with him once we pick him up, so we are stocking up now.

We are also continuing to raise money. Sunday, February 6th, Harrisonburg First Baptist Church is selling lunch plates to raise money for our travel costs. For those who read this blog in Harrisonburg, plan on going by FBC and eating. Thanks in advance for giving to our adoption. I would also like to thank those who planned this fundraiser and who are working hard to make it happen. We appreciate you so very much.

On Friday, February 18th, we will be selling Jambalaya lunches in Jena. The lunches can be picked up at Triangle Pharmacy or delivered. We need orders by February 16th. If you would like to have a lunch that day, contact us by email or by commenting on this blog. We will make sure you get a plate.

Between the two fundraisers, we would like to raise $4000-5000. This will cover our travel expenses and give us a little extra to buy anything we need for Eli while in Taiwan. Again, we don't know if he will have anything other than the clothes on his back when we get him.

Finally, please begin praying for Eli's birth mother. When we travel to Taiwan, we will have the opportunity to meet her. She has requested this meeting. I'm sure in her mind, she wants to meet the family that will be raising her son. She will want to keep the lines of communication open. We know that God is giving us this opportunity to meet with her and share with her the truth about Jesus Christ. Our desire is to share the good news with her. Please pray that God would begin to soften her heart. Pray that God would give us wisdom and boldness.

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

News Story on Taiwan/China relations

JIUPENG, Taiwan – If Taiwan's unusually public test-firing of 19 missiles Tuesday was intended as a statement following China's successful trial of a new stealth aircraft, the message came out a bit garbled.

Taiwan's president was on hand as almost a third of the missiles missed their targets, raising questions rather than reassuring the public about the self-ruled island's readiness to defend itself against an attack from the mainland.

President Ma Ying-jeou's attendance at the drills at a base in Taiwan's south was ostensibly to underscore his commitment to an effective Taiwanese deterrent, following criticism that the island's defense has been undermined by his policy of reconciling with the mainland.

However, one analyst suggested the public display was aimed at persuading Washington to sell more advanced military jets to Taiwan, whose U.S.-equipped air force long maintained an advantage over China's, but has recently been eclipsed.

Mainland China and Taiwan split amid civil war in 1949, but Beijing still claims the island as its territory and has reserved the right to invade the democratic island of 23 million people if it moves to make its de facto independence permanent — something Ma opposes.

Six of the 19 surface-to-air and air-to-air missiles failed in drills that came after China's successful test flight last week of a next-generation J-20 stealth aircraft, a system expected to further widen its growing edge over Taiwan's own equipment-starved air force.

"I'm not satisfied with the results," Ma told reporters after the missile drills. "I hope the military will find out the reasons and improve its training."

The missile tests were the first held in full view of the press for almost a decade. They were meant, Ma said, "to bring more transparency into military affairs and allow the public to view the military's readiness."

But under a cloud-speckled winter sky, six of the missiles failed to hit their targets, including one RIM-7M Sparrow, which cascaded harmlessly into the South China Sea less than 30 seconds after launch. Other missiles tested included Sky Bow IIs — which have a range of 125 miles (200 kilometers) — MIM-23 Hawks and FIM-92 Stingers.

Following China's well-publicized test of the J-20 last week, the normally pro-government United Daily News questioned Ma's policy of shifting the military's main mission away from national defense and toward disaster relief, commenting that "the more important mission for the military is to defend against threats."

The shift in military priorities, unveiled after a devastating typhoon in August 2009, reflects Ma's belief that his continuing efforts to lower tensions with China — the main theme of his 2 1/2-year-old administration — make war across the 100-mile- (160-kilometer-) wide Taiwan Strait less likely than ever before.

Defense expert Wang Kao-cheng of Taipei's Tamkang University said one purpose of Tuesday's missile test may have been to persuade the U.S. to sell Taiwan the 66 relatively advanced F-16 jet fighters that top its military wish list.

Washington is considering the request, but bitter Chinese opposition to the deal has delayed its implementation for more than two years.

"The Taiwan government may be using this exercise to send a message to the U.S. that its air defense is facing mounting pressure as China continues to develop the new generation of fighter jets," Wang said.

Taiwanese military commentators say the main function of the missiles tested Tuesday is to deter Chinese aircraft from entering the island's self-proclaimed defense zone on its side of an imaginary line that runs through the strait that separates Taiwan from the mainland.

The missiles bolster the island's aging air force, which American analysts say is becoming increasingly ill-prepared to meet the challenges of China's continuing military buildup.

Monday, January 17, 2011

2 month mark

It has been just over a month since my last post. The reality of how slow the adoption process moves is starting to set in. Since sending in our dossier paperwork, we have not heard any news on Eli or where we stand in the court system. I have spoken to other families that are adopting from Taiwan and they heard that the court system shuts down around Christmas. That wasn't very encouraging to hear. The good news is that we are now about to enter the time frame that was given to us by our adoption agency. We were told that once our paperwork entered the courts we could expect a 3-6 month wait until receiving a travel date. Our paperwork entered the court system in mid-November. That means that we are at the 2 month mark. Things are beginning to get exciting. We are preparing our home for Eli's arrival. I have two great kids. They are so excited about Eli coming home and are working great at getting things ready. I am extremely proud of Micah. He will be sharing his bedroom for the first time. He has been so gracious in getting rid of toys and making space for Eli's bed and clothes and toys. The Lord has blessed us in so many ways and we are reminded each day that our family is one of the Lord's greatest blessings.

Over the past few weeks, some money for the adoption has begun to trickle in. We received a donation from a very special lady and friend of our family. Harrisonburg First Baptist Church has been selling our shirts for the past few weeks and have collected around $400 dollars. We also were told that H'burg FBC was planning a lunch fundraiser after church on Feb. 6. Thanks in advance to all those who are planning and working to make this fundraiser a success and thanks to H'burg FBC for supporting our adoption financially, but more importantly prayerfully.

Keep praying and we will update you soon.